January 12 – Alateen A Day At A Time

Kapag hindi ako binibigyan ng aking mga magulang ng pansin o atensiyon na hinahanap ko, inaakusahan ko sila na hindi nila ako mahal at nagsisimula akong magtampo sa kanila. Nang dumating ako sa samahan, nalaman ko ang aking mga kamalian. Sa halip na tanggapin ko ang kaya nilang ibigay, tinanggihan ko ito.

Ang programa ay nakatulong sa akin upang maunawaan na ang nagmamahal ay may iba ibang paraan. Nang tumigil akong umasa na mahalin ako ng aking mga magulang sa aking gustong paraan, natutunan kong tanggapin sila at ang kanilang pagmamahal para sa akin. Hindi nagtagal ay para napagtanto ko na hindi sila kailanman tumigil sa pagmamahal sa akin.

MGA BAGAY NA DAPAT ISIPIN

Ang ibang tao ay maaaring walang kakayahang mahalin ako sa paraang nais ko. Maaari ko bang tanggapin ito ng walang sama ng loob at mahalin pa din sila? Maaari , basta handa akong tanggapin kung ano ito at tandaan na ang tunay na pag-ibig ay walang kasamang kapalit.

English Translation

When my parents didn’t give me the kind of attention I was looking for, I accused them of not loving me at all and turned my back on them. When I came to the fellowship, I found out how wrong I’d been. Instead of accepting what they had to offer, I rejected it.

Working the program helped me to understand that everyone loves in a different way. When I stopped expecting my parents to love me on my terms, I was better able to accept them and their feelings for me. It didn’t take long for me to realize that they’ve never stopped loving me at all.

Things to Think About

Other people may not be capable of loving me the way I want to be loved. Can I accept that with out resentment and still love them? I can if I’m willing to accept them as they are and remember that real love comes with no strings attached.

About Site

This website was created to determine if the collaborative power of the internet could be harnessed to spread the Alanon message to non-English speaking parts of the world farther and faster, while remaining true to the original texts of Alanon conference approved literature.

Once fully operational, and if successful, the concept could be adapted for translating CAL to any language.

While we may be in violation of Copyrights or Trademarks, we humbly ask that you hold this matter in abeyance during implementation. We anticipate completion about December 2021. At that time, if it is the wish of the membership, control of the domain and all content will be transferred to WSO or it can be closed it down.